The Truth in Love

“¹⁵Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.” – Ephesians 4:15 (ESV)

As a Christian, I find myself in a difficult position when it comes to speaking the truth, because the fact of the matter is, society is very resistant, even appalled by the truth. And due to this, speaking the truth is in some cases dangerous for me in some instances.

I have to remember that God has put me here to do His work and I should continue to do so, even in the face of the danger that may come with that work. The thing I have to hang my hat on and the approach that I should be taking is loving truth. That kind of love that comes with caring and meaning. One that shows compassion and service. The kind of love that others will want to be surrounded by.

I have seen, as I believe you may have as well, those that give the truth in such a manner that I feel as though I am somehow less than intelligent and less than a person for the way I am/was acting. These are not necessarily the picture of the love that God has for me.

I have the unique opportunity as an adult educator in the corporate world to share truth in love with people everyday. I have been in numerous situations where sharing some feedback or coaching with someone is vital to their performance and the approach I take makes all the difference. The love and care that I show for them as a person impacts the interaction in such a positive way, that I was told recently that someone confided in them that I was the favorite trainer this person has ever had (and they have not worked at my company for quite some time now). This may seem trivial, but to me I am elated that I was able to reach someone through simple compassion and love.

The truth may not be what someone wants to hear, but when delivered with love and compassion, it can and will be so liberating.

Are you resistant to the truth when given poorly? What is your reaction when someone approaches you with love and compassion? Will you give the truth, but only through love and compassion?