Don’t Forget the Examples of What NOT to Do

When studying God’s Word, I, like I am sure most of you, focus on the actions we should take and forget the examples of what not to do. This morning I read in 1 Corinthians 10 and the title of the passage is:

Warning Against Idolatry (ESV)

Warnings From Israel’s History (NIV)

Either version you read, the message is the same, warnings of what not to do.

I also seem to recall a set of items that give us instruction into how to follow God, I am sure you have heard of them: THE TEN COMMANDMENTS. Nine of the ten are what not to do.

What NOT to do, what a concept. I have difficulty with understanding why folks do not follow rules and are constantly looking for ways to go around the law to accomplish their desires. We have been told not to, but we continue to ignore the warnings of the consequences. We are somehow “above” being held accountable for our actions. Paul gives us the reminder of the consequences of the actions that were against God, and then;

11Now these things happened to them as an example, but they were written down for our instruction, on whom the end of the ages has come.” – 1 Corinthians 10:11 (ESV)

Look at those words; “written down for our instruction”. We are to remember the consequences and heed the warnings against the actions that lead to those consequences.

God knows that this world is not easy and that being a child of God is doubly difficult. Paul’s encouragement is here as well;

13No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.” – 1 Corinthians 10:13 (ESV)

We are man and we will have difficulty, however God will not allow us to be there without instruction. He has provided us the needed instruction; whether it is what TO do or NOT to do.

Are you heeding the warnings and instructions? All of them? What examples are you putting at the forefront, what TO do as well as what NOT to do?

Jesus, Example for Us

How many of us used to dress up like our parents, “idol”, mentor, or just someone or something that we wanted to be? You know that we have the ultimate example, Jesus, already available to emulate?

14If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. 15For I have given you an example, that you also should do just as I have done to you.” – John 13:14-15 (ESV)

I remember looking back when I was younger, ok much younger, and walking up to home plate at baseball practice and taking the stance of the players I watched on TV. I remember in one of the “Bad News Bears” movies where a pitcher was always trying to pitch “like” one of the pro pitchers he admired. In both instances, success for us was minimal. We were too caught up in being the other person that we missed out on the true emulation that would lead to success.

Success does not come from emulating the example of physical actions, but from the heart of the actions. What is beneath the surface is the example of how and why we act. The action of the batting “like” or pitching “like” someone was not how success would come. The success comes from the work you put in. That part that not many people see. The greatest of the pro athletes, whereas they did have immense talent for the game, put in the work behind the scenes. Nolan Ryan worked tirelessly in the weight room on his legs for a skill that required his arms. Michael Jordan was in the gym shooting more than any of us know. Ozzie Smith threw baseball over the house and ran to the other side to try and catch them as a youth.

We may look at the actions of Jesus and ourselves “wash a few feet” and expect that we are somehow being like him, and whereas that is a nice start, it is the tireless work that we do for him that really drives home the example. Jesus, put in the work for us each day and we should be doing the same. The one action that “all” sees is not the point, it is what is in our heart and the daily work we put in without the fanfare that really is the example.

Will we work at these items as the example of what is in our heart? Are you caught up trying to “wash feet” to show others, or are you just putting in the work and letting your servanthood just be done? Are you using Jesus as your example?

God’s Love, Always There

I know that there are times when I feel as though God has left me and the struggle of life is overwhelming. It is difficult finding the joy when the separation feeling that comes on.

35Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword?” – Romans 8:35 (ESV)

Notice the question format of the verse above. Paul is putting them out there and then follows with verse 36 to show that we are indeed persecuted by the world as we follow Christ.

36As it is written, ‘For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.’” – Romans 8:36 (ESV)

So, I have to remember that the struggle of life is real and God is allowing it to happen. We are to embrace that struggle.

But really. Why? When times are the toughest, why does God not just pick us up and protect us from the difficulty instead of allowing us to struggle with this life? Why can’t He just make it all go away? Look back at the words Paul reminds us of “For your sake…” We have been living as predicted.

Paul finishes up this passage with his reminder to us that even though things are tough, we are never separated from God.

38For I am sure that neither death nor life, or angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” – Romans 8:38-39 (ESV)

No matter how bad things are or may be or will be, God’s love is always there to lean on. We are going to be tested, persecuted, and struggle with life, but God never leaves us. We are never separated from HIS LOVE.

When you are struggling, where are you leaning? What direction do you turn for support? Do you know that you are going to make it? Are you able to find solace in the FACT that God’s love is always there?

God’s Love, for ALL

28And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” – Romans 8:28 (ESV)

Notice in the verse above, “those who” is used twice. There is no nationality, no cultural denotation, no color, no religion, only love for God that identifies us. Talk about diversity and inclusion. All we have to do is love God and we are in. I am all for that.

Here’s where it gets a little tough, we are to love as God loves and that means accepting everyone as God accepts everyone. It may seem like an easy thing, but I will admit that there are people in this world that are hard to love (I am sure you are aware of a few). Those that persecute us, murderers, those that believe differently than us, and those that live a different lifestyle than we do all cloud our judgement of who and how to love.

And yet see here:

25As indeed he says in Hosea, ‘Those who were not my people I will call “my people,” and her who was not beloved I will call “beloved.” 26And in the very place where it was said to them, “You are not my people,” there they will be called “sons of the living God.”’” – Romans 9:25-26 (ESV)

God loves all and his love is for all. We are afforded love from God and therefore aren’t we to be the example of God here. We have the obligation to be the example of God’s love and what better example than showing his love for ALL.

Where is your heart when you are confronted by those that challenge your ability to provide love? Are you able to love in the example of God? If we are not able to love, what right do we have to God’s love? Aren’t we a part of the ALL?

God’s Love through the Holy Spirit Demonstrated by Jesus

We are in a place that can only be covered by love, and God provides that love for us.

5and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. 6For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.” – Romans 5:5-6 (ESV)

I am amazed every time that I read God’s Word as he teaches me or reminds me of something each time I sit down with Him. You see in the verses above that God’s love is for all, through the Holy Spirit, and Jesus died as a demonstration of that love.

What a great love it is that the Trinity is involved. We are blessed to have God in our lives and providing for us. But it was not just a one-time present. Yes, Jesus died once, but the Holy Spirit continues to pour that love into our hearts daily. And God is always there to continue filling up the bucket of love so that it never, and I mean never, runs out. You see, God gives us what (love), when we need it (the right time).

13…but the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13 (ESV)

No matter what else God can give to us, we should remember that the greatest gift he provides for us is love. We are to store it away in our hearts and show it to everyone.

When you are working your way through life, how much are you thinking of the love God has for you? Are we able to abide in that love and show it to everyone? Are we understanding that God gives, the Holy Spirit pours it in us, and Jesus demonstrated love?

Love for God, When Asked, What is Your Response

I read this morning about Jesus and Peter. Jesus asks Peter if he loves him, three times and Peter stays steady each time with his answer.

15When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, ‘Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?’ He said to him, ‘Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.’ He said to him, ‘Feed my lamb.’ 16He said to him a second time, ‘Simon, son of John, do you love me?’ He said to him, ‘Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.’ He said to him, ‘Tend my sheep.’ 17He said to him the third time, ‘Simon, son of John, do you love me?’ Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, ‘Do you love me?’ and he said to him, ‘Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.’ Jesus said to him, ‘Feed my sheep.’” – John 21:15-17 (ESV)

When you are asked something multiple times, how are you feeling/reacting to those questions? I know that for me, I feel as though maybe the one asking knows something that I do not. Looking at this exchange with Jesus and Peter, we know that Jesus knows all and certainly more than Peter, however he is not trying to trip Peter up. He is asking Peter to dig into his heart for the true answer.

In the verses above, Jesus wanted Peter to be sure about the love he had for him. First, did he love Jesus more than the others around them? (ESV Commentary) Second, he asked Peter to confirm the love he had was indeed the depth he proclaimed (are you as sure of yourself the second time as you are the first?). The third time, Jesus asks if Peter is indeed his friend (NIV Commentary).

Peter was grieved after the third time, not angry or questioning of Jesus, but grieved. When we declare to love God, how deep is that love? Do we have the same answer after three times asking as we do after the first? When Peter had to give thought to his love of Jesus, he realized his devotion. His love was deep in his heart and would spill out as he moved forward as the evangelist as opposed to fisherman (NIV Commentary).

I ask myself the following questions: Have you realized the depth of your love for God? When asked, is your answer the same after the third time? How does your life change understanding the depth of your love for God?

God Chose You to Live Out His Love

We are loved by God. We are in God’s love. We are provided by God’s love.

16You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you.” – John 15:16 (ESV)

You can see that we are children of God because he picked us. We were chosen to be his. There a responsibility that comes with God’s choice of us. We should be obeying and working for God and those actions allow us to ask for needs and Gods will give them to us.

It may be hard to believe that God chose each one of us. He has given the gift of salvation to us by choice and all we have to do is accept. Once we have accepted the gift, we have been made heirs to the rewards of heaven. Once we are heirs, we then have the responsibility to act as heirs in the manner of God.

God’s love is for us and we have only to accept it. He chose us to have his gift and in repayment he only asks of us the below:

9As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.” – John 15:9 (ESV)

We are to take solace in God’s love. We are to love as he loves. We are to be the example of God here for others to see.

When you are in the world, are you bearing fruit? Have you accepted the gift of salvation that God has given to us? Are you working to live out God’s love?

God’s Love Provides

When I just quickly think of the word provide, I am drawn to a physical need being met. That may be the case, however providing may be more abstract than that. Look here at the definition of provide in the English Language Learners Dictionary:

Provide: to supply what is needed for someone to live (http://www.learnersdictionary.com/definition/provide)

As I study, this morning, God has taken me to verses 15 and 14 of John chapter 14. I am sure that I have a number of typographical errors as I write, however this time I meant to place the verses in that order.

15If you love me, you will keep my commandments. 14If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it.” – John 15:15 & 14 (ESV)

For me, reading the verses in this order define more clearly how it is that God will provide for our needs. If you will read on, I will explain my reasoning as to how and why it makes sense to me this way.

You see, I have to be invested in order to follow. Whether in my personal life, work life, spiritual life, or any other situation, without investment in something, I have little if any desire to stick with it. That investment is what drives us to continue and when we continue we are driven to be the best you can at it to be successful. When you stick with it, make it successful, you are rewarded.

God’s love drives should be driving us to stick with him and make him successful. The way that happens is for us to “keep” his “commandments”. When we keep the commandments of God and then ask him to provide for us, he will not disappoint.

I refer back to how I started this morning. When we think of providing, I am immediately drawn to the physical, but you can see that even in the definition, there is only reference to needs. It is we that think physical when what God provides for us to live is, in many cases, more than the physical.

God provides for us. We are tasked with obeying God and doing his commandments, also known as obeying his will. When we are obeying, God rewards us by granting the requests for help with those needs that arise.

When you think about the needs you have, do you start with looking at whether or not you have been obeying? Where can you be sure to know what actions you are to be taking are in accordance with God’s will? We demonstrate our love for God by obeying, are you? When you do ask God to provide, are you looking at the physical need, or are you looking for God’s answers to be bigger and more abstract? Are we loving to receive what God provides?

God’s Love Shows Who We Follow

I am a fan of sports and our boys have played since a very young age. On each team you can see who the leader is and it is likely not the coach or manager. Sure, they run the team, but when it comes to leading, there is another that drives.

We have leaders in life as well and our actions demonstrate who it is that we are following.

34A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” – John 13:34-35 (ESV)

Check out the verses above to see how others will know who we follow. Our acts of love are a huge sign that we follow someone greater than this world.

Think of some of the public figures that we see in the world; celebrities, athletes, music and film artists, and politicians. There are many that are constantly in the spotlight for their actions. These actions really show who they are and where there allegiances are. There are a few that I think of immediately that show that they follow God, and it is pretty glaring and awesome.

We are in a position of visibility each day and have an opportunity to demonstrate God’s love as we walk in this world. We are responsible for the presentation of God to the world as we “make disciples”. What a better way to present God than showing we follow him with our presentation of God’s love.

Does the world know who you follow? Are your actions speaking louder than your words? Are you presenting God through the presentation of God’s love?

God’s Love Conquers All

We should know that God’s love is different from our own and we should carry God’s love in our own hearts.  I know that I still need reminding of the power of God’s love.

 

3So the sisters sent to him, saying, ‘Lord, he whom you love is ill.’  4But when Jesus heard it he said, ‘this illness does not lead to death.  It is for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it’… 14Then Jesus told them plainly, ‘Lazarus has died’…23Jesus said to her, ‘Your brother will rise again’…35Jesus wept.  36So the Jews said, ‘See how he loved him!’…43When he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice, ‘Lazarus, come out.’” – John 11:3-4, 14, 23, 35-36, 43 (ESV)

 

First of all I encourage the reading all of Chapter 11 to dive deeper into the love of God on display.  Here we see that Jesus indeed was human and had emotions just as we do.  Verse 3; “Lord, he whom you love is ill”.  And verse 36; “See how he loved him!”  Jesus had very dear friends and they weighed heavily on his heart.  Don’t we all have friends and family that weigh on our hearts?

 

Jesus also did not forget that he was Lord.  He waited for the death of Lazarus before he made any movement to go to him.  He made sure that his love would be manifest for all to see in the glory of God.  He reminded Martha and Mary that Lazarus would rise again, and that as they believe, they never die.  Don’t we have a responsibility to believe as such?

 

Verse 35 speaks again to the emotion that overcame Jesus.  Imagine your dear loved one passing, we cry.  Jesus revealed his humanity.  He is Lord and knew of the action he would take to raise Lazarus, yet, he wept in sorrow to demonstrate his love.

 

Finally we see in verse 43 the power of God’s love to overcome death.  God’s love is displayed here to show us the power of his love to conquer even death.

 

25Jesus said to her, ‘I am the resurrection and the life.  Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, 26and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die.  Do you believe this?’” – John 11:25-26 (ESV)

 

We have difficulty understanding the work of God because we think and believe what we see and touch.  After verses 25 & 26, Jesus then demonstrates for us to believe.  God’s love does conquer all and if we forget, we only need remember Jesus’ physical act of love as man and God to regain our understanding of the power of God’s love.

 

Do you doubt the power of God’s love?  Look at your days and events, act on God’s love and see the power of God’s love at work.  I wonder, do we really know that the power of God’s love indeed conquers all?